Sex on Vacation: Why the Right Lube Belongs in Your Carry-On

You know the feeling. You land somewhere warm, your phone goes quiet, and suddenly you and your partner are actually looking at each other again instead of half watching TV while scrolling on separate couches. No laundry pile, no 6am alarm, no rushing out the door. Just you two, a hotel room with good sheets, and zero reason to hurry anything.

Turns out sex on vacation isn't just a vibe. It's backed by real research.

Couples who travel together report a better sex life overall, not just during the trip itself. Seventy seven percent say their sex life is good, compared to 63% of couples who skip travel together entirely. And more than a quarter say things got better after a trip and stayed better long term [1].

Researchers have looked into why, and it comes down to something called "self expanding activities," basically trying new things together in a new place. Studies found that couples who share these kinds of experiences on vacation report more physical intimacy and more romantic passion once they're back home too [2]. So that trip isn't just a nice week off. It's doing something for your relationship that sticks around after you unpack.

Even the emotional side backs this up. Eighty two percent of married couples say a romantic getaway can reignite the spark, and 79% believe travel has a genuinely positive impact on their relationship [3][4]. Read on for how to kick it up a notch!

Why Getting Out of Your Routine Actually Matters

There's something about being away from your regular life that lowers your guard. You're not thinking about tomorrow's to do list. You're just present. That mental space is exactly what intimacy needs to actually happen, instead of squeezing sex into the ten minutes before you fall asleep.

Vacation solves that problem by design. You made the time. You're already there. All that's left is enjoying it.

Simple Ways to Reignite Sex on Vacation

You don't need a five star resort or a big romantic gesture. A few small choices during the trip go a long way.

Start with where you're staying. A room with a deep soaking tub or a two person jacuzzi, a private balcony, or a view worth cuddling together at sunset matters more than a fancy lobby. If you're splitting a house with friends or family, ask for the room farthest from everyone else. It sounds obvious, but privacy is the number one thing people forget to plan for. And don't skip room service. Ordering a bottle of champagne or a late night dessert to the room turns an ordinary evening into an occasion, no reservation required.

Watch your itinerary too. It's tempting to pack every day with excursions, but leaving one afternoon open, or skipping the 8am tour, gives you ture downtime instead of exhausting yourselves. Jet lag and long travel days are real. A slower morning or a nap before dinner isn't wasted vacation time, it's part of the plan to have more room to be sexy later on.

Phones are the other big one. Eight in ten couples say their partner's phone got in the way of intimacy at least once on a trip [5]. Hide it, put it away! Being unreachable for a few hours is one of the most romantic things you can do for each other. That feeling of calm will be enough on it’s own to start focusing on each other.

A little intention before you leave home is really all it takes.

Should You Use Lube for Sex on Vacation?

Short answer: yes, and it's worth packing before you even ask the question. New place, possibly new time zone, a long travel day behind you. Your body might need a little help getting in the mood, and that's completely normal. The right lube can really make a difference!

Our O-Shot® Liquid Glide was made for exactly this. Pick up the 50ml travel size, so it fits right in your carry on and clears TSA's liquid limit without a second thought.

It's water based (no oily stains), hemp infused for ultimate relaxation, and made without silicone, glycerin, glycols, fragrances, or parabens. Not a fan of weed? Don’t worry, this is zero percent THC, so no high, just glide. Users say the hemp extract adds a little something extra to sensation and comfort. It's also safe to use with latex condoms and toys.

The Takeaway

The mental space, the privacy, and the unplugged evenings do most of the work. You just need time, no distractions, and maybe one small bottle that makes everything a little smoother, literally. So next time you're packing for a getaway, toss it in next to your sunscreen. Your future self will thank you.

Sources

[1] "Valentine's Survey Finds Traveling Together Strengthens Relationships, Makes Sex Better" U.S. Travel Association via PR Newswire. 

[2] Coffey et al., 2024, as reported in "Why Travel Is So Good for a Relationship's Health," Psychology Today. 

[3] "Are We More Romantic on Vacation?" Talker Research, commissioned by BeachBound Vacations. 

[4] "Travel Strengthens Relationships and Ignites Romance," U.S. Travel Association / Edge Research. 

[5] Jones, E., "Sex on Vacation: 37+ Statistics & Facts," Passport Photo Online. 

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